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Short Stories: The Wife And The Side Chick (Part 1)

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Andrew and Magdalene were one love birds whose love life was enviable, even among their friends. The single ones hoped they meet partners like them and the married ones wished they had what they have. Andrew is a 33 and a banker, and Magdalene 27 and a bussiness woman. They've been married for four years (been together for 7 years) and they have a 3-year old son. They were one happy family with less drama and lots of love. They did have misunderstandings like any normal couple but they were always quick to resolving it and back to their blissful love life. But unfortunately they has to separated for awhile because Andrew's job had to transfer him to Accra for a year(they were living in Sunyani) and it was torture for them. The night before he was to leave was a sad and hard moment for them. Magdalene cried of missing her husband and Andrew was not happy about the idea of leaving the side of his family either, but there was nothing they could do. He howev...

Personal Experiences: Flashing Back Memories To That Time I Fell For A Guy With A Sexy Voice Buuut.....

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Hello awesome people, hope you are all doing great. Now you all know there are some people who have this awesome, sweet voices, that will make you fall in love with them the moment they speak, but most at times, such people are not blessed with physical beauty looks?(God definitely does not give one person all the good qualities). I am sure we all know a few people like that. Well let me tell you a funny story of how I ended up liking this guy who had one pretty awesome voice but when I finally met him, I was quite disappointed because who was not what I had imagined. It all started when I completed S.H.S, and at the time, free night call was the ish. I use to stay up at night on conference calls with my class mates, as we had just finished school and we liked to keep in touch and still fool around like we did in school. So one time, before the conference call began, one of my male friends called for a chat. About what, I don't remember (but definitely nothing im...

All Details About Prince Harry And Meghan Markle's Engagement, The Ring Made With Princess Diana's Jewelries + Video Of Their First Interview

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As you all might have heard by now, there will be a royal wedding next year, as Prince Harry and actress, Meghan Markel are engaged. When I saw it on IG, I 'awwed' for minutes and was all up in my feelings and excited like I will be hired to be the wedding planner. Lol. The announcement was made yesterday, and the news has since broke the internet, and got everyone rejoicing. Especially the Black-American community, as Meghan will be royalty of African descent (Her mother is black and her father is white). Something we all couldn't have imagined will happen 10 years ago, just as we couldn't have imagined a black man will be the president of America. The love birds made their first photocall appearance after the engagement at the Sunken Garden in  Kesington Palace and they sure looked so much in love (watch video below ). When the prince was asked how he knew she was the one, he said, " from the first time we met". About the ring Prince Harry prop...

To Slide Or Not To Slide Into His DM....

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Hi awesome people, hope you are all doing good, and the week is treating you well. No? Hang in there weekend will be here soon. How many of you have ever seen a guy on social media and think like damn, he has a great personality and you would like to get to know him more but when it comes to sliding into his DM to say hi, you begin to have second thoughts? I bet most of you have been there before or a few times. As for guys, we know it is easy to just hit into a lady's DM, though sometimes you claim you don't because you get scared of being bounced with a 'no'. But most often than not, you do it. But for us ladies, it is not so easy, especially in our part of the world (Africa). But I saw a post on  Facebook a few weeks ago of this beautiful engaged couple, who actually started it off through the DM, and from the post, which was posted by the guy, it was the girl who got into his DM first, and they took it from there--And they are probably married by now. ...

Short Stories: Love At First S**x ( Part 4 )

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Max and Serwaa had planned to go to the beach on that holiday. "But you can come with Babs just in case our meeting will be awkward like you say, we can all feel comfortable with her company" Max suggested when they finalized on their plan. So serwaa agreed to ask her sister to come along. Max and Babs are no stranger to each other. They had spent a couple of times together. Sometimes Max joins the sisters on their sit outs and the three of them liked that company. So Serwaa asked Babs to come with them. "After all you don't have any plans on the day and mom and dad will not be home so even if you decide to stay in the house you will be alone and how boring that will be. I cannot even enjoy my outing knowing you are home alone. So lets go, cmon its a holiday", Serwaa persuaded her sister, and she agreed. They had decided to go with some little food and drinks so Serwaa agreed to prepare something. "You can come do it at my place, with Babs of...

Short Stories: Love At First S**x (Part 3)

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But she knew she had to stop him…. So whiles enjoying his kisses and losing her senses, thankfully a part of her sense could still function and she thought, if anything happens between them, it will be a disaster. First, Max has not even proposed to her and second, she does not really love this guy. So apart from him thinking of her as an ‘easy go’, it will also ruin their friendship and friends with benefits is not something she is a fan of. So she immediately brought her whole sense back into her being and found the courage to push him away. “No!!! She said softly "I’m sorry but we can’t do this”, she said, whiles picking up her shirt and dressing up as quickly as possible.  “I need to leave”, she said, rushing out of the room even before Max could utter a word. Max then rushed after her, feeling terribly bad.  “Serwaa please wait!! He said with a shake in his voice. “I’m very sorry, I didn’t mean for that to happen please don’t be mad”, he said. Serwaa h...

Working, Paying Bills, Finding A Man; This Thing Called Adulting Is Hard

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Hi, lovely people!! Happy new week, hope you are all doing great. So looking back to when I was young at about 15-16 years, I always liked the idea of dressing up with something of my mom’s (lipstick, shoe, dress, earrings,) just to feel like an adult. But of course my mom never liked it when I used her stuff, so sometimes I wait till she is not around or I sneak it into my bag and use it when I get outside (so who else used to do that? Lol). There was this one time that I remember very vividly, I wore one of her mules, she found out and insults did fall on me. And at that moment, I wished I was old enough just so I can have my own stuff, live on my own and be my own adult. But fast forward to today that I am an adult, have my own stuff and living on my own, I have realized that this adult life is not as exciting as I thought it would be. It is so damn hard!! The Responsibilities I so wish we could just adult and have someone else take care of our responsibil...

Short Stories: Love At First S**x (Part 2)

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"Ahh!!! thank God you are home. We have been worried sick about you with the way the rain is pouring", Serwaa's mother said, the moment she rushed inside. "How did you get home, and you are not even a little bit wet? Did you pick a taxi all the way from your work place?  She questioned. So Serwaa told her mom she met a school mate who gave her a ride home.  Well since it was through the school mate she got the ride home, I think technically she can say he gave her a ride right? Serwaa is a 27 year old worker on the weekdays and a student on the weekends. And though she would really want to live on her own, she  is not. She lives with her parents and her elder sister Barbs, who is 29.  Their parents still have the old believe that it is rather right for a man to go looking for a woman they want for a relationship from their parent's home. They believe men do not take girls living on their own serious, so for them, any man who would want a serious re...

Short Stories: Love At First S**x (Part 1)

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Serwaa was in a hurry to get home because it was very cloudy, as if the sky was coming down. It looked like if it started raining, it wasn't going to stop soon and she hates rain because it makes her sick. So she rushed to the bus station to catch a cab but there was no car in sight. She made an attempt to order Uber but she realized the networks were down. "Damn if I knew it was this cloudy, I would have ordered the uber earlier with the office's WiFi. Now these networks are down and I can't even make a phone call to my sis to come pick me up" she thought to herself. Whiles she was standing at the station angry and thinking to herself, the wind got stronger so she tried to cover her face with her handkerchief to prevent the heavy winds from blowing dust into her eyes. And then a car pulled over. "Hey Serwaa is that you? A voice which seem to be coming from the car that just stopped infront of her asked. So she took the handkerchief  from her ...