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New Year Resolutions??

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Happy New Year love buds!! We made it to 2018 and we can only be thankful to God for life. Many couldn't make it, it is just by GRACE. It is my prayer that a year by now, we shall all be here, giving thanks and appreciation. Like every other year, one thing we all keep singing about are new year resolutions. Many people talk of letting go of bad behaviors and attitudes, cutting out negative energy, whatsoever - but we all know most people don't come through anyway. Unless God intervenes, they wont last a month before they are their normal selves again. We've all been there lol. As this new year began, I've got some people asking me what my resolutions for the year and I always find myself saying I don't have any. But truth of the matter is, I think I actually do. Bring My Ideas To Life I actually have a couple of ideas I've been working on that are way over due, so this year,  I am hoping I can come through with them - at least some of them, if not ...

Personal Experiences: Flashing Back Memories To That Time I Fell For A Guy With A Sexy Voice Buuut.....

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Hello awesome people, hope you are all doing great. Now you all know there are some people who have this awesome, sweet voices, that will make you fall in love with them the moment they speak, but most at times, such people are not blessed with physical beauty looks?(God definitely does not give one person all the good qualities). I am sure we all know a few people like that. Well let me tell you a funny story of how I ended up liking this guy who had one pretty awesome voice but when I finally met him, I was quite disappointed because who was not what I had imagined. It all started when I completed S.H.S, and at the time, free night call was the ish. I use to stay up at night on conference calls with my class mates, as we had just finished school and we liked to keep in touch and still fool around like we did in school. So one time, before the conference call began, one of my male friends called for a chat. About what, I don't remember (but definitely nothing im...

Dear 2017, Thank You For The Love, The Highs&Lows, The Good&Bad Experiences And The Lessons

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Hi awesome people, I hope you are all having a good life? If not, it shall get better, have faith. So as the year is running and months have turned into weeks and weeks into days, and we are about to say goodbye to 2017 what are you thankful for? Though the year might look like a short period of time, a lot has happened and if I say I have nothing to be thankful for, I will be the most ungrateful human. I am thankful for so many things. For The Gift Of Life Yes! If I am not thankful for anything, I am just for the gift of life. Being here today, with y'all is the biggest blessing. We began this year with a lot of people who equally had dreams to chase, living better lives, had loved one who couldn't live without them, but unfortunately, they are not with us anymore. Some, perhaps with us but probably in bad states we wouldn't wish to be. So just being blessed with the grace to be alive and kicking, I am so much thankful for that. Even though I do not thank Him...

To Slide Or Not To Slide Into His DM....

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Hi awesome people, hope you are all doing good, and the week is treating you well. No? Hang in there weekend will be here soon. How many of you have ever seen a guy on social media and think like damn, he has a great personality and you would like to get to know him more but when it comes to sliding into his DM to say hi, you begin to have second thoughts? I bet most of you have been there before or a few times. As for guys, we know it is easy to just hit into a lady's DM, though sometimes you claim you don't because you get scared of being bounced with a 'no'. But most often than not, you do it. But for us ladies, it is not so easy, especially in our part of the world (Africa). But I saw a post on  Facebook a few weeks ago of this beautiful engaged couple, who actually started it off through the DM, and from the post, which was posted by the guy, it was the girl who got into his DM first, and they took it from there--And they are probably married by now. ...

The Fear Of Rejection....

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The fear of being rejected has killed and is killing more dreams, careers, talents and even relationships, more than we imagine. Simple words like ‘no’ and 'sorry', can automatically dim your shine and make you give you. We have all at a point in our life been afraid of going after something we wanted because of the fear of being rejected - story of my life. It is this fear of rejection that is making people do shitty things just to be accepted these days because rejection can be very hard to deal with.  Rejection is even making people commit suicide. Not being accepted into that school, the un-replied job applications, the unanswered emails, the rejected job proposals, and love proposals, not being accepted in a certain society, all that can be very frustrating and can make you spend days doubting yourself and that low self-esteem sucks.  Imagine working on a project for months, putting in so much effort day and night and then after when you go seeking for spon...

How I Got My Nose Piercing And Two Other Things I Would Like To Do Before I Hit 30

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Hi lovely people, trust you are all doing well. In today’s write up, allow me to bore you with my 'before 30 life adventures'. I mean some things I find cute and would like to do it before I hit age 30. And when I say that I mean if I am unable to do it by 30, then I am letting go. In the past few months, I have been talking with my neighbour and my roommate about getting a tattoo, nose piercing and locking my natural hair. We all find them cute so you will sometimes find us discussing where to get the tatts and nose piercing and which part of our bodies we would like to tattoo and what we want, but the thought of the pain discourages us from actually getting it so we just discuss it for fun. But two weeks ago, I went through with the nose piercing as most of you have realized **tongue out being silly lol. I got some friends admiring it (hi Kweks lol) and others looking at me funny, whiles some couldn't believe that I actually did it. And almost every...

#Chalewote2017: The Melanin Six Pack Squad, The Fine Guys&Girls, The Amazing Arts,The Crazy Outfits And All The Fun You Missed

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Chale Wote is an annual street art festival (Ghana Coachella) which takes place in Ghana and last weekend, Jamestown, it's normal venue was lit with so much fun and beautiful moments as people from different countries and all walks of life came through to participate in the event. People attend this festival to socialise, have fun, and to see all of the amazing paintings, artistic works and creations, cultural performances and traditions, interesting games, stage performances, and a whole lot other fun filled activities Ghanaians, have to offer. There are also those guys who show off their very well built melanin, chocolate looking, 'touch me' muscles to entice the ladies and to annoy the guys lol. (My friends and I were on the look out for them but we were, unfortunately, missing them). This year's event is my 3rd experience and I enjoyed it as I enjoyed last year's (My first experience in 2015 was not as fun). I attended the last two days, ie: Saturd...